Fiona the Kindergartener

Fiona remains a character. She is so animated. I love to watch her hands move when she talks, she is so expressive with her hands and her body. Sometimes she is trying to speak the way adults speak and it just cracks me up. She also is fully aware that she's so adorable, and she uses it to her advantage. She's theatrical for sure, but she uses her cuteness to try and get out of responsibility. This is something we're working on quite a bit.

Beyond her hilarious personality Fiona is adjusting to kindergarten. This year at school hasn't gone as smoothly as it did for Lourdes. And I don't like to compare them in a sense that one should be doing what the other did, I know they are different children and I love that, I'm only saying for perspectives sake that it was more of an adjustment for Fiona. Usually Fiona is a bit reserved, and quiet when she starts out at a new place. She'll observe and take in her surroundings, try and figure people out before she interacts. I love this about her, she seems to make good decisions about situations and just being observant is a great trait to have. Unfortunately Fiona was under the impression that if it weren't for kindergarten she and I would be at home together each day. So this school thing was really bumming her out and ruining a good time at home. She was "sick" a bit frequently in the beginning of the year. And sick here is certainly a loose term. The school nurse and I have since had a discussion about Fiona's realization that the nurses office is the wonderful portal home. We are both on the same page that she'll be a frequent flyer there, and that most times it's better to say, "oh I'm sorry you aren't feeling well. I think Mommy's in a meeting right now. Go back to class and if you still feel sick later we'll try giving her a call." Amazing how she seemed to be so much healthier after this! But now the year is almost over and she's doing really well. Her latest report card says she's a leader in class, organizing games and making a lot of friends. She has a bit of a chatting problem (hmmm, where does that come from?) but she's learning and advancing. She's finally started reading and now that she can, she's actually getting into it. I think more she's getting into writing but hey, being literate is pretty awesome!

Lourdes One Heck of a 7 Year Old

Lourdes- Man is she a smart gal. She is inquisitive and understands on a level far beyond her years. Since the beginning of first grade she's been reading chapter books. I'm not talking short like 50 pagers, this gal is reading 200 page chapter books and usually within a day or two she's on to the next one. She and I are currently reading Little Women together. It's so fun to experience these books with her. There are some words and phrases that are above her but we talk them out and she gets it. It's a lot for her to "listen" to a book nowadays, she wants to be the one reading. Next up for us is the Harry Potter series!

She's still a bit cooky, but that makes her a lot of fun and very interesting. To just listen to her thought process takes you to a whole different world of understanding her. She remains just like me with her awkwardness and lack of grace. But boy does she try. I love her picture poses! Oh gosh, who know limbs and fingers could get so angly and oddly position for a picture. 

Lourdes is learning the ropes of friendship. She's struggling with the idea that not everyone deserves to be given your friendship. Some "friends" have been taking advantage of her for her toys and then pushing her aside and alienating her. It's tough, there's a lot of discussions we have. She has a huge heart, she wants to share that with everyone. I have tried to let her learn these lessons on her own, come to her understanding that these girls aren't nice to her and aren't worth playing with. But she's convinced next time, they'll be nice. If she lets them play with her toys, they'll like her. It's heartbreaking and I had to step in we had a big heart to heart. She was very grown about it. But it was heartbreaking to see her be hurt, and she was heartbroken to realize these girls would not be her friends no matter what she did. On the other hand, she has begun some really lovely friendships and those we are working to foster.

All in all, she is one special seven year old gal and I am over the moon to call her my daughter.

Gosh It's Been Awhile

Gosh, it has been a long time since I have blogged at all. I guess being a mom, wife and having a career are kind of taking every moment up. Then those moments that aren't scheduled or spoken for I crash on the couch and watch mind numbingly trashy television (Oscar might say those moments are too frequent). Well I do have hopes of always keeping up a better record of our lives. Perhaps it will actually happen. I did want to get some things down about the girls as they grow (too fast, seriously, TOO FAST). So here's some updates on them, their personalities, and anything else that pops in my head about them right now.